My response would have probably been a firm ‘No.’ However, I was not the one in position to execute the decision and so I left it up to him. I heard his voice gently speaking to them. A little later, I heard the clanking of bowls and spoons. Some, looking in on this scene, might have said that he had given in to them and that he was showing them that they could get their way when they complain loudly enough.
But I saw a loving father demonstrating God’s grace in a tangible way.
The loud complaining was a ‘But, Daddy!’ and tears – over something as simple as not being able to have a snack before bed. A request that is sometimes answered by a yes and at other times, due to the lateness or other circumstances, receives a “No, not tonight.” Yes, they responded poorly to our answer and should have been disciplined appropriately and not have been able to have a snack.
And so enters unmerited favor from their daddy. After talking with the girls and explaining that they should not have a snack becasue of their poor response, he then extends grace by forgoing punishment and allowing them to have a small snack.
This showing of grace points me to Christ and His grace that was extended to us. May their earthly daddy’s small acts of grace towards them point our little ones’ hearts and minds to their Heavenly Father as well.
For it is by grace you have been saved,
through faith—and this not from yourselves,
it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast.
Ephesians 2:8-9
All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,
and are justified freely by his grace
through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.
Romans 3:23-24
